Why So Quiet Around Here?



klezmer electro-thug beats said:

Waxi is a unique case though because it has a population that if there's one thing (aside from weird records that suck) that unites its population it is being holdouts, or at least people who have no concern with keeping up to date with trends. SS has always had more people ready to jump onto the next thing. Even at its most "backpack" nobody here wanted to look like the stuck-in-1994 the-breaks dude.





Aside from the usual things already mentioned – we’re older, in different stages of our lives with other priorities where listening to music is probably more enjoyable than chatting and flexing about it; that SS has to compete with a dozen other platforms which didn’t exist at the Board’s peak – not only to keep regulars but to attract new posters – and the excellent point made above by ketb – I can say the look has nothing to do with my falling away. I check in now and then, will maybe post but usually just read through old threads instead.

I would say there were a few weeks (months?) where the assholes had the run of the place and no one reeled them in. That turned a lot of people off, and there was little left to bring them back given the rest of the world kept moving along and providing other options, be it Waxi or real life. We were already losing people at that time, and that politics clusterfuck sealed the deal. Maybe moderators would have helped given the self-regulation the Board operated under was gone as key people left.


Speaking personally, why would I want to be part of a Board where people got to say some pretty heinous shit unchecked and got run of the place? I had stayed long after my friends and favourite posters left but that time-span left such an awful taste.

There used be enough of a variety of people here that even with whatever BS people were spouting, that didn't define the Board. Not the case anymore.

There’s just no vibe here.
 
The redesigns may have thrown off a few curmudgeons but they weren't difficult to deal with. The Hatters have gone as far as I can see. Maybe I just have a thick skin.

In terms of vibe, the place is what you make it. You can be the difference and

such... rescue the site from the Blahs....

https://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=i&a...70824572965803" target="_blank" rel="nofollow

Can I trot out the old adage about it being the only place I can

banter with Meriman and dem / only sign of intelligent life across the

pond? Thanks in advance.

 


Jimster said
The Hatters have gone as far as I can see. Maybe I just have a thick skin.







They have but what you see today is the result of their stay.

Because one definitely didn't need thick skin to be on the Board before, right? I have no idea when you joined but people would actually go on other boards to complain about how mean SS was. Few newbies lasted. A poster said he wanted to punch me in the ovaries. It was so accommodating here, we never had more than five women posting at any given time. This is not about hurt feelings but the culture of the place. But you tell'em, tough guy.

 
I've been here 10 years, so not one of the first, but grey-of-beard enough to witness the wrath of Foxie and dem. I did cross swords with a few folls the first time out but came to the conclusion it was better to talk about what we had in common rather than, say, jump in with both size 12s on a gun control thread etc. THERE CAN BE NO WINNARRS.

Ovary-punching? I didn't see that but I'd put that in the folder alongside threats of gypsy curses or being punished in the next life. Sometimes the kids on here lacked social graces and/or have never spoken to a woman IRL, remember. FWIW, I enjoyed yours and AwDamms views on the deal-breaking covers and sartorial threads. You should bump dem.
 


bassie2 said:



Jimster said
The Hatters have gone as far as I can see. Maybe I just have a thick skin.





A poster said he wanted to punch me in the ovaries.







Wow. I'm surprised nobody did anything. Did you flag it or report it? I really hope that a mod didn't see that shit and let it slide.

I'm not big on moderation of things that people say. But any threats or bulling should have been dealt with. That shit is a cancer that needs to be cut out.

That said. So many people left for Facebook, waxi, reddit, etc etc etc. But it's kinda obvious many are just the type to jump from thing to thing. That's just the digital world we now live in. People get bored of their blog, FB or whatever and move on. I think the bigger prob (And issue that must be addressed) is always going to be pulling in new people. Which is tough for any online forum nowadayz.
 
It was superpoaster (who was the resident

punching bag until he got semi famous as Jesse Futerman and then he was the Board’s

darling. You know how it is.). Lots of people saw it and asked for him to be

banned. I don’t remember supporting his ban to be honest – don’t recall if he was or not. He said he was sorry and all that.


It was aggressive passive aggression in that misogynist nerd way. The board was

full of them.









My point was more to question the notion of that

all one requires is thick skin to weather a group of people who change the

whole atmosphere of a place when thick skin was a requirement for just logging

on!







Anyway, the Board is not for me anymore. I am

putting in my two cents as to why off the subject heading. In no way am I

saying shut it down.
 
DOR said:
That shit is a cancer that needs to be cut out.






I know your heart's in the right place, but as a presumably earnest response to an ovary-related threat, this could use a little work.
 


bassie2 said:

My point was more to question the notion of that

all one requires is thick skin



I was not alluding to you not. Excuse me if that appeared to be the case.

I was alluding to the fact that I believed the hatters had gone, or the fact that there appears (accoring to my skin depth) to be no recent hattred going on .

 


bassie2 said:

It was superpoaster




I think you'd have to draw him a diagram.
 
I had a mostly-lurking account since like '05 and have read the site since '99 and definitely sometimes felt intimidated to post more than the very little I did. It wasn't just here though, I now participate in a few forums I wouldn't have back then. I think internet discussion's changed, and if you just want to pick fights there are now basically specialized places for that under every news article. Makes SS and indeed other communities a bit more focused.
 


Hairy Moody said:

DOR said:
That shit is a cancer that needs to be cut out.






I know your heart's in the right place, but as a presumably earnest response to an ovary-related threat, this could use a little work.





That shit is a giant turd and an atomic bomb should be dropped on that shit!
 
Always a treat when James passes through. Ditto Bassie. I miss her views on all things sartorial. Batmon's, too, even though his taste was a bit tacky at times.
 
I still check in often, I have seen all forum sites fade into oblivion, probably due to facebook groups etc. I do think it might be cyclic though.
 
I don't want to talk Strut on FB.

One, no-one outside of here gives a f*ck about my weird music.
Two, no-one on here gives a f*ck about my weird music.
Three, you can't find/return to anything amongst the banal morass of good-natured chud.
Four, I don't want to shatter the illusion of who Strutteurs are In Real Life.

FB absolutely fails as a replacement for a forum.

 
I agree, I am not saying its any sort of alternative, I was just saying I have seen a huge decline is a lot of forums, some that had been going strong for well over 10 years
 


yuichi said:

Hey guys. To be completely blunt, the last format/layout change I think completely turned off most
remaining OG members.




I noticed that.. Harvey Canal, Batmon, Laserwolf, DB Cooper all jumped shipped after the "upgrade". I will admit that the latest upgrade was a last ditch attempt to be "relevant" as it features a lot of more social media stylings. It does have it's benefits (like a better search engine), but then again, if you are living in 2016 and still using message board technology, it's probably the last thing you care about.

I guess I am....

:disconnected:

In all honesty, though, I miss the community. I miss being able to support people's new releases, hear about their new mixes, get excited about a new record store someone is opening up, a movie review. All that is gone. I'm friends with a lot of the same people on Facebook and it's not the same. In fact, I unfollowed a lot of them because of the same stupid daily narcissism.

Also, I haven't been on Waxidermy in years, but props to them for keeping it simple and retaining their audience. That was not a healthy place for me, though. The last few times I was on there, it was filled with ex pats reveling in this place's demise.

Nonetheless, I am fully dedicated to having this place still up and running for more years to come! The archives are one of my children and I hope people get the same value out of them as I do.