Duderonomy said:
Apparently Barry survived gang life and prison. I’ll assume he’d never have been such an enthusiastic singer of love songs if he’d ever had to toss salad.
I guess being the tosser of the salad is a choice? Whereas getting your salad tossed against your will is the scenario I personally would want to avoid. Better to give than to receive, etc.
Although I wouldn't fancy the former much either.